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Friday, June 20, 2014

Public Transportation as a Way to World Peace

"This is my first time to ride the Metro," the 30ish woman said as she sat down by me on the Yellow Franconia line at 5:55 p.m. on June 20th.  "I'm from Texas, and we ride in cars there.  I never see other people, but wow, here I see everyone!"  She was a bit nervous, I could tell, but with experienced D.C. friends, doing okay.  But her comment, voluntarily given, was really interesting.  She could have talked about being underground, about the heat, about the crowds, about the long, long escalators.  But she noticed the people, their diversity, their busyness, their joy, their exhaustion, their humanity.  And it really seemed a revelation to her, this Killeen, Texas woman who had gone from place to place in her own cocoon and had never noticed others unlike her own small world.

Perhaps she asked if she could sit by me because I had taken the "reserved for the disabled and elderly" seats.  I know I'm not elderly, but this is, after all, my 57th birthday, and I hardly qualify as young.  In truth, if the seats are open, and others are not, people take these seats, even blue-suited, white-haired aging men. So I did, and she joined, and we had a moment.  Killeen ... my guess is a military wife, transferred with her husband to a base or fort or air field near here, but who knows?  Killeen folk probably hate that stereotype, and I apologize.

It was a good birthday day in fact, quite productive.  From Crystal City Metro at 7:00 a.m. to Woodland Park Metro, about 30 minutes away, to look at a potential hotel site for an LCU reception, then down the Red line to Foggy Bottom to negotiate another possible hotel site, then up the Red line 40 minutes to Rockville for an internship site review, then down the red line 15 minutes to Bethesda and another site review, then down another 15 minutes to Dupont Circle for lunch with a Washington Center Internship executive for planning and review, then a 30 minute walk to another site review, followed by another walk back to the Metro, and a 20 minute ride to the Navy Yard Metro, via Metro Center and a switch to the Green line, for another hotel negotiation meeting, and then, after a time for coffee and some note-taking (while watching neighborhood moms and children playing in the park fountain), the 20 minute ride up the Green line to transfer to the Yellow line and on to my home for the week.  All without a car, all on foot and by Metro, a truly marvelous, modern miracle, where suits and soldiers, laborers and students, parents and children, tourists and seasoned civil servants -- from every race and every ethnicity, straight and gay, poor and much richer, young and old, deaf and hearing, healthy and compromised -- meet in a common quest, to get somewhere.  There is not much talking, there is not much eye contact, there is, to the inexperienced rider, a kind of coldness or impersonality.  But they are all trying to get somewhere.

And on the way, they learn to get along.

Peace!

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

To My Youngest Daughter, On Her 18th Birthday and Move to College

Written a few weeks ago for my daughter. She leaves for college tomorrow. The letter, while personal, speaks I hope to the longings and yearnings and angst of so many parents like Sharie and me. Our daughter gave permission to post this slightly edited version in hopes that others will find hope and grace.

To My Youngest Daughter on Her 18th Birthday
My Dear Daughter,
In the great stories of religions, there come on occasions, though never on schedule, those wonderful surprises of God – those often unexpected, never carefully planned for, and always accepted with wonder, great, transforming joys. Hindus call them avatars, Buddhists name them Bodhisattvas, Sufi Muslims see them in the fana of mysticism, Jews in the Hashem, or with Christians, prophets. To many, Jesus was that surprise. But whomever they are, and by whatever name, they come as serendipity, they come as judgement, and they come as love. They shower unexpected and unexplainable joys on their recipients, they obviously challenge neat, reasoned plans and goals, and they pour out selfless expressions of caring and sympathy and hope. (They bring deep blessings unexpected, they force their recipients to rethink current plans, and they give great love.) In short, they call their recipients to a new world, a better place, an unintended but always new adventure.
Dear Daughter, you are one of these very rare, and very precious, persons. You are God’s surprise to us, God’s “Yes” to all of our future, God’s confidence in all of our new projects, God’s demand that we not become complacent, God’s reminder that true love is never planned or calculated or targeted but always free and courageous and bold and determined, and real.
These eighteen years have been so unbelievable, and yet certain. You grew up very quickly, with sister and brothers so far ahead, mom and dad so busy and tired. You had to. Your mother provides such special memories of you: “Can I get on the computer to do my homework?” when you were barely five. “I need to have the phone to talk to my friend” when you were even younger. You were helping Mom teach Sunday school before you were in school. You were walking to school, on your own, very early. You were pushing the lawn mower with me when most of your school friends did not know what a mower was. You were climbing the ladder and handing me tools to build a new bedroom before you were even in school. You knew the local Aquatic Center, where all your siblings swam before you, so well that you could walk to the water’s edge blind-folded and stop just at the right spot before falling in. And, by middle school, you were so ahead of your mother and father on technology and television and contemporary life that we were, well, growing old.
You watched your oldest brother leave for college when you were six, and you cried. The next two left not many years later, and it seems that we all became so different. It’s like you experienced what all parents do when the “kids leave home,” but you were still the kid, and we knew it but we did not always handle it well. So you found other siblings, of sorts – friends and boyfriends, some wonderful, some dangerous, and we responded in a variety of ways. Your mother was ceaselessly committed to helping you, to encouraging you, to correcting you, to caressing you, to giving you her very soul. I was less focused, caught up in work and travel and backyard meditation, too often ignorant or oblivious to the hurt you so often felt and the confusion of home life you so often saw. My dear daughter, I am so sorry. I know that overall, I cared for you and the whole family, and I would always have given my life to protect you, but I also know that my own world has been too often too busy to see you well.
Indeed we have had ups and downs. I will never forget the occasional painful days of later senior high school, when we all struggled to help you find happiness. On those few nights you left, I walked for miles, and then drove, not sure what to do, but somehow aimlessly hoping to find you. And I wondered what I would say if you came home.  
And you always did. And we got by.
And, you’d be baking cupcakes for swimmers or classmates or workmates the next day. You often put off studies to get the baking done – yes, a nice diversion from study you didn’t want to do, but yes, so nice a good diversion rather than a whole lot of other things you could have done. I’m betting over the years you’ve baked 50 dozen cupcakes for others. And then we can talk about the cards, posters, and letters. You have been an encourager, a life-changer, and dear friend to oh so many. I’ll never forget your support for, and friendship with, the disabled swimmer Beth, for example.
Oh, dear Daughter, you are so much more dear and precious and beautiful and special and prophetic and kind than you may ever know. You have your faults, of course. (Perhaps you shop too much?) But you are dear. You are God’s special gift, God’s serendipity to Sharie and me, and the world. Your mother tells me, and I agree, that you have helped us to understand God’s Grace more than we ever could. I am so happy you are going to pursue a vocation that is about helping people. Your gifts of love and kindness will continue. You will be God’s grace-giver.
I know you probably had different expectations for an 18th birthday party. After all, you live in a secular, greedy society, and your friends and coworkers expect more.
But I also know that you, deep down inside, realize how very blessed you are to have a loving mother and father, and
how very blessed you are to have been called by God to be a special surprise, a dear serendipity, a rare chosen one, who will continue to be such a blessing to all you come to know, now and in the future. Daughter, you are a special chosen one. You have been prepared well, sometimes challenging, always with love. You will continue to be a blessing to all you know.
Go with God. Live well. Work hard. Love deeply. Laugh fully. Repent sincerely. Reflect with commitment. Rededicate intensely. Laugh more fully. Work with calling.
And love more deeply.
I love you, my dear daughter, as does your mother. We are so very proud of you.
Go with God.
Love, Dad

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Martin Luther King as Christian, Even While Barack Obama is Inaugurated


So I am sad not to be watching the inauguration live, and sad to be working as well, but my institution chooses to honor the legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr., with a special chapel.  Sometimes I am asked to present it.  Here's my words for the big day, which I will literally be reading as Pres. Obama is giving his speech.

Martin Luther King, Jr.:  Another Story
LCU Chapel, January 21, 2013

Popular theologian Stanley Hauerwas likes to remind Christians of what he calls the Tonto Principle.  When the Lone Ranger and Tonto once found themselves surrounded by 20,000 Sioux Indians, the Lone Ranger turned to Tonto and said, "This looks pretty tough; what do you think we ought to do?"  Tonto replied, "What do you mean ‘we,’ white man?"  Our tendency, Hauerwas says, is to view life through the assumptions and perceptions of the dominant American culture and to fail to see that "we" are not all alike, all sharing the same heritages and present realities and life goals. 
            Neither Hauerwas nor I mean to focus here on ethnic and cultural diversity but rather on Christian particularity.  What does it mean to say we are Americans, and to say we are Christian?  When we stress, for example, our "rights" to big cars and big homes, who is the "we" that we are talking about?  When we pray for our soldiers going off to war, who are our soldiers?  When we teach our children to grow up and be responsible citizens, what kind of citizenship are "we" implying?  When we focus on getting a good job after we finish college, what do "we" mean by "good"?  When we honor and celebrate  the heroes of our past, who are we, and who are they, and why are we continuing to honor them in such ways?
            The Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday provides us with an excellent example.  To virtually every American, Martin Luther King brings to mind certain fixed phrases and images.  We all know the phrases.  "I Have a Dream;"  "We Shall Overcome."  And if we Americans had to sum up his life with one descriptive line, it would likely be "Civil Rights Leader."  We've all seen the crowds, the marches, and even the monuments, and we have a fairly consistent and often repeated picture of him and of this day.  And on this particular day, we’ll see a more pronounced emphasis – President Obama will invoke both King and Abraham Lincoln, with themes of rights, justice, and freedom.
            But do we Christians realize that Martin Luther King, Jr. was first one of our own?  That at his very core, he was not really a civil rights leader or a political activist, but that he was a Christian, a disciple of Jesus Christ
Do we hear him, not quoting legal documents but the words of Jesus?  Do we even know that the driving force in his life was not a racial agenda, a political idealogy, or a personal lust for power but that it was Christian love?  Listen with me to his own words.
            What is the goal of life?   "The end of life is not to be happy nor to achieve pleasure and avoid pain, but to do the will of God, come what may." 
What is the greatest good of life?  What is the summum bonum? I think I have found the answer, America. . . . The highest good is love.  This principle is at the center of the cosmos.  It is the great unifying force of life.  God is love.  He who loves has discovered the clue to the meaning of ultimate reality; he who hates stands in immediate candidacy for nonbeing.
And why should we love even our enemies?  He responds:  "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.  Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.  Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction.  So when Jesus says "Love your enemies," he is setting forth an inescapable admonition.      Have we not come to such an impass in the modern world that we must love our enemies---or else?  The chain reaction of evil . . . must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation."
And why are we compelled to act for the hurting and oppressed of the world?  Because love is "the true meaning of the Christian faith and of the cross.  Calvary is a telescope through which we look into the long vista of eternity and see the love of God breaking into time.  Out of the hugeness of his generosity God allowed his only-begotten Son to die that we may live. By uniting yourselves with Christ and your brothers through love you will be able to matriculate in the university of eternal life.  In a world depending on force, coercive tyranny, and bloody violence, you are challenged to follow the way of love.  You will then discover that unarmed love is the most powerful force in the world."
 Not long after King's death, the young poet Carl Wendell Himes wrote,
            Now that he is safely dead
Let us praise him
            build monuments to his glory
            sing Hosannas to his name.
                        Dead men make
such convenient heroes:  They cannot rise to challenge the images
                        we would fashion from their lives.
            And besides,
it is easier to build monuments
            than to make a better world.

Himes, I think, was quite prophetic.  Fourty-five years later, the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday is honored by some Americans, largely ignored by most (“why are we out of school, today?”), and turned into partisan political spectacles by still others, and King himself is captured in only one or two repeated scenes from moments in past history. 
I wonder what might happen if on this day we heard more sermons and prayers of King and saw less film footage of crowds and marches.  I wonder what might develop if more churches and less political action groups would listen to him.  I wonder where we might be if we spent the day, in the manner of King, reflecting on Jesus' Sermon on the Mount and its ethical implications for our lives, if we took Christian love as seriously as King did.
            Ah, but we're back to the Tonto principle again.  Who are the "we" that we are talking about?  My guess is that most of us see ourselves as Christians and Americans, as some kind of ChristoAmericans or AmericoChristians.  We pray to God and ask God to bless America, we value American goals of rights and freedoms as if they were God-given licenses to personal excess, we tend to see the world in terms of American Christian good and foreign religious evil.  But the two --- American and Christian --- are not the same, and it's Martin Luther King, Jr., who reminds us of this.
           
By 1965 King had already made a name for himself: ten years of work for civil rights, Time's "Man of the Year" in 1957, the march on Washington in 1963.  He had already been arrested and threatened many times, and in 1958 he narrowly escaped death when a black woman stabbed him.  He had already gained worldwide fame, receiving in 1964  the Nobel Peace Prize, at age 35.  So, by 1965, the world was his.  We are told that he had always wanted to get a university professorship, to have time to write and think and teach.  Now, it seemed, was the perfect time to retire from the public scene and to enjoy the good American life.
            But King did something really foolish, something very unwise.  He rented an apartment in a dangerous ghetto of Chicago and began to work against injustices there, and then he continued similar practices in other parts of the country.  And this man who could have claimed any number of privileges and exclusions, this Ph.D. in philosophical theology and world leader, went to Memphis in 1968 to help some garbage workers who weren't being treated fairly.  And we know the rest of the story.
            Two months before his death, King was preaching in Atlanta and reflecting on how he would like to be remembered after he was gone. 
            "Tell them not to mention that I have a Nobel Peace Prize.  Tell them not to mention that I have three or four hundred other awards – that’s not important.  Tell them not to mention where I went to school.”
"I'd like somebody to mention that day that Martin Luther King, Jr. tried to give his life serving others. 
“I'd like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King, Jr. tried to love somebody. 
“I want you to be able to say that day that I did try to feed the hungry. 
“And I want you to be able to say that day that I did try in my life to clothe those who were naked. 
“I want you to say on that day that I did try in my life to visit those who were in prison.
“I want you to say that day that I tried to love and serve humanity.
“Yes, if you want to say that I was a drum major, say that I was a drum major for justice.  Say that I was a drum major for peace.  I was a drum major for righteousness.  And all of the other shallow things will not matter.
"I won't have any money to leave behind.  I won't have the fine and luxurious things of life to leave behind.  But I just want to leave a committed life behind."
What kind of man has these goals?  What kind of person denies success and wealth and rights and safety and life itself for the sake of love? 
What kind of man?  A Christian. 
And it's high time we reclaimed him, and started listening to him, as one of our own.
Thank you.
-- Stacy Patty

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Giving Up on Facebook

For some time now, I've felt that Facebook is too impersonal, too incendiary, too short, too casual.  I'm quitting Facebook.  I look forward to the time to write and think, and post occasionally, meaningful reflections, whether others like them or not.  I look forward to not being so easily engulfed in difficult political or theological conversations that are impossibly handled with short quick, late-night, posts.  So, if you care, look here on occasion.  But if not, no regrets. Life is good.

Sunday, December 16, 2012



On Lubbock Christian University, Vocation, and Life: A Speech for Commencement
(Delivered on December 15, 2012)

President Perrin, Chairman Harris, distinguished colleagues, graduates and their families, and friends:

We celebrate today the completion of formal baccalaureate studies at Lubbock Christian University, whose mission is to “challenge students to think critically, to excel in their disciplines, and to model Christ.”   Graduates, we trust that our faculty and staff have met the challenge, and that you each leave here today confident that we have accomplished our mission.  Permit me, then, to reflect more closely on the content of that mission.

I begin in a familiar place, the New Testament Gospels.  In several passages, the writers relate two similar occasions when Jesus sent out disciples across Galilee and Judea.  We today are quite removed from first-century Palestine, and few of us are leaving this room planning to work in religious ministry.  But the instructions Jesus gives to those disciples, and the insights they imply, speak pointedly to the heart of the matter.

First, Jesus tells them to proclaim the advent of the Kingdom of God, and to act in such ways that demonstrate that kingdom – healing the sick, doing good works, for example.  He encourages them not simply to speak about the kingdom but more so to live the kingdom.  To be a follower of Jesus is not merely to voice religious words, such as “God loves you” or “Jesus died for you,” or even “The Kingdom of God is here.”  Rather, it is – for all of us – to carry about in our lives the reality of transformative grace and empowerment that comes only from realizing God’s reign in our lives and in our world.  It means to say in word and deed that God loves us – each of us – and God calls us to live fully, whatever our specific daily role is.

It is indeed a calling, a vocatio, a vocation as stewards of God’s grace.  It is – as one biblical writer says – to use the gifts and talents we have to administer the very grace of God.  It is to live with an occupational identity while understanding a larger calling.  So whatever career path we each have chosen, as Christians we all are first priests of grace, and second physicians and teachers, scientists and lawyers, therapists and managers.  I hope, graduates, that we have helped you to see this central Christian truth.  I hope that we have not aimed to simply train you for a job but rather to help you discern a vocation, that place, in the words of writer Frederick Beuchner, “where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”   In worldly terms, I hope that you leave here desiring more to serve than to succeed, to always balance your career goals with the Kingdom goals of peace and justice and freedom.  And I hope that we’ve not simply provided you with facts and access to knowledge but instead pointed you in the lifelong quest for wisdom, a wisdom that opens eyes to see all that is good and lasting, and evidence of the unfolding reign of God among us.

Second, Jesus instructs the disciples to keep focus on what really matters.  He tells them to limit their area of work and to take very few possessions.  Not even those people closest to Jesus could do it all or have it all.  The call of vocation is at once challenging and comforting:  We take on our life callings with courage and enthusiasm, but we best include humility and appropriate reticence, lest we begin to think we can – or should – conquer the world, be it corporate, educational, medical, or something other.  The allure of success so often is tied to working ten to twelve hour days, taking on more and more projects, travelling more miles, or garnering more accolades than our peers.  But those who work too much spread themselves thin, are less effective, and find themselves really quite miserable.  There is no failure in realizing our limitations; there is no defeat in focusing our energies.  But there is wisdom in the words often attributed to Francis of Assisi, “Do few things and do them well; take your time; go slowly.” Otherwise, the busyness of the days brings on ever more pressing tasks, always another area of work to address, again another person to see, yet an additional meeting, and another, and what really matters – that which is at the heart of our vocations, that to which I am uniquely me and you are uniquely you – begins to suffocate, and neither your joy nor the world’s needs are met.  As former Barrington College president Charles Hummel was once told by an experienced cotton mill manager, “your greatest danger is letting the urgent things crowd out the important.”   When our busyness overwhelms, he added, “we’ve become slaves to the tyranny of the urgent.”

In 1939, just after the start of World War II, an anxious entering class of Oxford students sat in opening chapel for words of instruction.  With the threat of bombs and the reality of deaths looming, would the semester be cancelled so all could return to family or national defense?  Wouldn’t this urgency be reason to delay the rather aloof life of university study?  No, said C. S. Lewis, in clear and firm terms.  That the students were there, sent by parents and allowed by country, was “prima facie evidence that the life which (they could), at any rate, best lead to the glory of God at present (was) the learned life.”   More so, that learned life was for them a duty, one constantly threatened, he said, by “the enemies of frustration, fear, and excitement.”   Now, on this day in 2012, for most of you the vocation of learning is waning, and your next moves take you beyond the university hall.  But Lewis’ words are appropriate reminders:  "There are always plenty of rivals to our work.  We are always falling in love or quarrelling, looking for jobs or fearing to lose them, getting ill or recovering, following public affairs.  If we let ourselves, we shall always be waiting for some distraction or other to end before we can really get down to our work."

Graduates, I hope that we faculty have taught you to grasp your futures with vigor but also to cultivate those callings with focus.  I hope that we have modeled the virtues of prudence to distinguish the important from the urgent and of courage to withstand the temptations and enemies that so easily distract.  You have studied with diligence, you have received an excellent education, and you have moved toward the fulfillment of your vocations.  Don’t let them slip away in the busyness and glitter of the days.

Third, Jesus tells the disciples to expect trouble and to face it with as much dignity and acceptance as possible.  If we take seriously our vocations, we will want to move with determination and confidence.  But the adventure will bring storms, accidents, detours, and even tragedy.  No life well lived avoids such.   Sometimes there will be external forces:  A business partner fails to carry through, a husband or wife breaks a vow, economic or physical failures complicate.

Or there may be factors caused more directly by our own choices, even when we’ve chosen well.  We are called to teach, but we worry about our own children in daycare.  We are driven to serve in foreign missions, yet we don’t see family often.  We know that we will become physicians, but the debt and long hours burden us.  We find ourselves – because we have chosen to own our vocations–confronted with inevitable conflicts between goods. It’s a familiar story.  Take Agamemnon, the Greek commander during the Trojan War.  After learning that his army has been struck with weakness and that the gods have demanded his daughter as a sacrifice, he faces the choice between sacrificing his own child, or failing in his calling and seeing his nation collapse.  Philosopher Martha Nussbaum summarizes the essential problem:  "Whatever you do, you’re going to be neglecting something that’s really important . . . . Tragedy happens only when you are trying to live well . . . . When you are trying to live well, and you care deeply about the things you’re trying to do, the world enters in, in a particularly painful way."
 
Graduates, I hope that we’ve not given you any illusions about the ease of your futures.  I hope that you face tomorrow with confidence but without naiveté.   Staying true to vocation brings deep satisfaction but also significant hurdles and difficult choices.  Living well demands wisdom and determined courage to face those difficulties and to accept the losses.   And so, in the words of Tennyson, “tho’ much is taken, much abides,” and we go forth “strong in will, to strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.”

Finally, Jesus encourages the disciples about the effect of their work.  People were healed, demons were destroyed, and good news was shared.  Because of their lived vocations, Kingdom came. They made a difference, they changed their world.  When people of faith embark on their callings with resolve, good things happen.  Grace is given, lives are enriched, societies move toward justice and peace.

Graduates, you now move on to make your differences and to do great things, and you will.  Some of you no doubt will become quite successful even in terms that the world recognizes.  You will join LCU alumni who are physicians, attorneys, and accountants, corporate CEOs and Fortune 500 managing partners, university presidents and Division I coaches, senior level government officials and global entrepreneurs.  We have every confidence in you; we have seen you grow in intellect and character, and we look forward to the ways you’ll become movers and shakers in your worlds, while bringing positive press and attention to your alma mater.

Most of you, however, will make a difference in less visible or publicly acclaimed ways.  The great things you will do, and the impacts you will have, may never make the headlines and likely won’t bring you financial wealth or worldly fame.  But as you go in quiet ways along the road with your callings, you will make the world a better place, and you will join a host of alumni who are changing our world.  People like Rachel, a Dallas school librarian with a passion of “being the change” for inner-city children.  Or Leslie, an army chaplain whose pastoral skills have helped to heal hearts in Iraq, Afghanistan, and at Ft. Hood.   Or Roslyn, transitioning from professional ministry to the important vocation of motherhood.  Or Willie, a former LCU football player, whose service as a police commander in our nation’s capital saves broken, abused, and addicted youth from the streets.  Or Debbie, whose rural hospital night shifts often focus on gentle and caring sponge baths for elderly people.  Or Kathryn, smiling and loving the Chinese as a missionary in Beijing.  Or Paul, doing laboratory research in water quality and working to ensure human health and safety.  Or John, who brings hope and pride to East Lubbock youth through his music teaching.   Or Andy, a bank branch manager taking a lead in central Lubbock community development projects.   Not one of these alumni will likely ever receive wide public acclaim; not any will go into the history books as important.  Yet they go about their lives as called and determined Kingdom servants, as priests of the grace of God.

As will you, graduates.   Don’t ever allow anyone to challenge the value of your vocations.  “What matters” or “what is useful” are often not the actions that can be quantified by measurable costs and benefits.   What matters – what really matters – is whether you live with integrity your callings.  If you are faithful to your vocations, trusting in the God who has called you, you will be successful.  You will make a difference.  You will do great things.

In 1922 the young theologian Karl Barth published a modest commentary on the biblical book of Romans.  Barth’s focus was on the failure of modern, liberal theology, which had ripped away the mystery and miracle of the Christian story in the name of intellectual progress.  His  new orthodoxy became the center of all twentieth century theology, and Barth soon was being heralded as “one of the Fathers of the Church.”    But he knew better.  In that early book he had penned his own tribute to himself, quoting from Martin Luther.  Barth cautioned:

"If you think and are of the opinion that you really stand secure and please yourself with your own books, your teaching and your writings, that you have done very splendidly and have preached magnificently, and if it then pleases you to be praised before others . . . if you are man enough, put your hands to your ears, and if you do so rightly, you will find a lovely pair of big, long, rough donkey’s ears.  Do not spare the cost of decorating them with golden bells so that you can be heard wherever you go and the people can point to you and say:  ‘Behold, behold!  There goes that splendid creature that writes such wonderful books and preaches such wonderful sermons.’"

Forty years later, he offered a final reflection on his long and distinguished career:

"Let me again remind you of the donkey. . . .A real donkey is mentioned in the Bible.  It was permitted to carry Jesus into Jerusalem.  If I have done anything in this life of mine, I have done it as a relative of the donkey that went its way carrying an important burden.  The disciples had said to its owner:  ‘The Lord has need of it.’  And so it seems to have pleased God to have used me at this time, just as I was. . . . I just happened to be on the spot.  A theology somewhat different from the current theology was apparently needed in our time, and I was permitted to be the donkey that carried this better theology for part of the way, or tried to carry it as best I could."

Graduates, lifestyles and careers somewhat different from the current norm in our world are needed in our time, lifestyles and careers that embody vocation, accepting with humility and courage the ways that God will work through us to bring a better world.  As Jesus himself modeled, be those priests of grace that the world needs now.  Embody the peace of Christ.  Call forth the best in people.   Leave behind the only success that really matters.

Parents, well done.  Graduates, congratulations.

And, as radio show host Garrison Keillor would say, “Be well, do good work, and keep in touch.”

Stacy L. Patty

Monday, November 5, 2012

To the Gentleman at DFW B10, Nov. 3, 2012

It had been a very long day.  No matter how often I try, getting to DFW from anywhere is easy, but getting from DFW to LBB is impossible.  Flights are always overbooked, and American Eagle seems to be doing quite well.  So after leaving DCA (Washington Reagan) early on Sunday, I ran to make one, then two, then a third short flight from Dallas to Lubbock.  This last one, I was actually booked on and had a seat, so it was delayed, for two hours.

I had heard it before, but kept putting it out of my mind.  It was a repetitive yell, almost a bark, sometimes almost a word, like "WHAATTT!" or something similar.  I just ignored it.  Some crazy, I guess.  They come in all places.  Who knows?  Leave me be.  Now, where was I with that FB update?

Then I saw you, across the gate lounge area.  You?  No, it couldn't be!  You are too normal, too regular.  What could be wrong with you???  But it was clear.  No denying it.  There you were. The typical youngish business traveler, with bags in tow, well groomed, in good shape, normal, quiet.  Boring.  But then, the bark, and again.  Nothing for a second.  Then again.  And again.  People glance, then look away.  People talk.  You stand, courageous.  The void around you grows.

I don't know what it is, but I know you are too normal.  I somehow gain courage to go up and just stand next to you.  Eventually I ask where you are going.  "Lubbock.  Never been there."  Lubbock!  Wow!  Me too?  "What would bring you there?"  "Speaking at the Medical School."  And I know, but ask anyway. "Why?"  "Well, it obvious, isn't it,"  you retort.  "I have Tourette's."  I feel very small, and embarrassed.  You carry on, about how you aren't bothered, how you have lived with it almost all your life.

I don't push it.  I want to know so much.  Does it hurt?  Can you control it?  Does it wear you out?  How do you handle the public scenes?  How do you live with this???

But you are gracious, and kind, and normal.  You are an Assistant Principal at an elementary school.  You are married, with two young children.  You travel about once a month, presumably to tell your story, but you long to be home with family.  You live in the South, and you are a loyal Cardinals fan.  You went to a small Midwest college.  You hope to teach college someday.  You know children, and pressures they face, and you gave me encouragement about my own children, all now grown.  You were gracious.

I watched you, I am sad to say, and people around you, all the way to Lubbock.  In truth, the goodness of the crowds -- mostly silent, mostly non-confrontive -- was reassuring.  No one really knows how to react, or what to say, but no one wants to be rude either.  And perhaps I was the problem; perhaps I should have just ignored you, a normal traveller, as we all so often do to one another in these airport worlds.  But I wanted to be near you, and to say you are not alone, nor an object of derision or focus.  And you were kind, welcoming yet another strange, curious odd one, me. Thank you.

So often we who claim normality assume everyone else is odd or alone or sad.  Sometimes we in our own sincerity may legitimately offer comfort.  But probably more so, we rush in, perhaps certain that our Messiah role to save and comfort and fix everything will be successful, and all will see our good works and we will be rewarded and honored and praised.

But sometimes, if we are lucky, we meet the gentle and courageous authenticity of others perhaps more often identified or labelled as odd or loud or wierd, or uncontrollable.  And, if we are fortunate, we experience a moment of genuine normality, of real life, of tremendous courage, and

Of sheer grace.

Thank you, Mr. Assistant Principal,  God Bless You.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Musings on the Orange Line at 5:30


Musings on the Orange Line at 5:30 p.m.

So I got on the Orange Line at Foggy Bottom, after a very long day visiting LCU Washington internship sites, for the very short, one stop ride to Rosslyn, my standing “home” away from home when I visit the city about five times a year.  I step in a crowded car, and stand by the door, dark blue suit and haggard face in tow, and the door shuts.  A tap on my thigh from the 30ish woman in the seat nearby, and I look down to see her ask if I want her seat.  I quickly nod “no,” but I contemplate a really, really amazing day. 

I’ve been coming to Washington for several years now, and I’ve gotten accustomed to the routine – commuting into the city each morning, depending on the Metro to get me near appointments, and walking – walking, really walking – did I say “walking?” -- walking a lot, all day, to get things done.  I saw five persons today, all over the region, and I experienced everything.  But most of all, I experienced age, and familiarity.  One touring couple asked me for directions.  Asked ME.  A cab driver asked me if I was a veteran, on the way to the V.A. hospital.  Two veterans – one black, one white – asked me what was my service branch.  A third young veteran thought he knew me; he claims to have been born in Lubbock; he is suffering from traumatic brain injury in Iraq. 

I felt, at 5:30 p.m., that I just wanted to go “home.”  No touring the nation’s capital, just getting to rest at the end of the day.

And some younger commuter offered me – the old, D.C. commuter me – her seat.

I never caught her eye again before I got off the train.  But I did see her reading material.  Just before I got off the train, I saw her pull out a plastic-covered folder full of information.  It clearly said “7-Eleven” on the first page.  It was a new employee training manual.

I am older, and I am blessed to have been empowered to direct an LCU Washington initiative.  I am very blessed.  And I am here enough to be viewed as an old man who commutes to work.  And I am very, very thankful for a wife, Sharolyn, who has supported this good work for students to excel. 

And, I am humbled again this week.  Courageous, perhaps naïve veterans “think” they know me.  Others, waiting hours to get medicine or see a doctor, assume that I am a veteran, and then when I deny, continue to talk to me with generosity and grace.  Touring couples see a suit and assume I am a Washingtonian.  And, certainly most noble, a sweet, hard-working Washingtonian just trying to get a job offers the old senior her seat.

It is indeed a wonderful world.